Mark & Twin

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I had an accident with hubs car earlier this week . It was really bad luck. I felt really bad cos I haven’t had any accidents for the past 10 years. When it happened the kids were in my sis and bro’s car. Thank God! If not I think it would definitely give them a fright. Hubs was on the way to Ipoh when the accident happened. I called him on the phone to tell him the bad news. He asked of the kids safety and mine. He didn’t scold me or comment anything at all …. that makes me feel even worse. Felt more like an idiot!! He’s a really understanding and supportive hub. I Love You!

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Today marks the 11th anniversary for us. We’ve been together actually that long … my! time really flies. And we’ve been married for 7 years. Oldest child had just turned 4. My .. my … time really flies!

Of all those years, we’ve been celebrating WITHOUT the kids but this time round, the kids will be joining us. We went for dinner at this joint called Sincero suggested by dearest hubs … food was ok …. chocolate milk shake was good but the carrot milk tasted like water. I like the toilet tho …. so techie until I don’t even know how to use it … hahaha.

After dinner, we took the kids golfing. What can be done on a romantic day like this with kids. Precisely! Nothing romantic.

Many years have passed and many more to come! Happy Anniversary Darling!

This is our 10th anniversary (courtship + marriage). Time really flies. We dropped the kids at nursery, we went to Korean Village in Ampang to have BBQ lunch. Everything there was Korean … supermarket sells korean stuff … even the saloon was owned by Koreans. Practically everything there is Korean. Since everyone is saying that the food there is cheap and nice so we decided to try. Its was good .. the marination was tasty and meat was also tender and juicy .. hmm yummy! After that, Mark decided to cut his hair and I washed too. The way they wash is really different. Washing hair while lying on a basin is something new to us. Normally its washing while you sit down and rinsing at the basin but this is totally different. Right after that, we stopped by a supermarket to get some biscuits and snacks for the kids.

We decided to go for a spa at Great Eastern Mall. Its pampering and totally relaxing. Nice. When it was time, we went to pick up the kids and we went for dinner.

During the previous episode of being alone with the kids, this time round Mark went to the UK for a business meeting for 3 whole days. And I will have to send/pick up the kids to and from the nursery. My mom is staying with us for a few days. I should think everything will be ok. These few weeks have been really funny. Mark has been working late these days and I have been sending the kids home from the nursery. The behaved really well but as soon as Daddy comes home .. I would hear whinning here and there from Princess. When she demanded for something, I’ll tell her no and she’ll except but when Daddy tells her no … she will go on and on. Probably its because these days, Mark’s been working late and not spending enough time with them. That’s what I told him but these few weeks he’s been really busy with work until he’s so worn-out. Poor poor hubby. Well, when he’s back from UK, we’ll go for a nice Japanese buffet in Midori restaurant, Marriott Putrajaya Hotel with some family members during the weekend. Bon Apetit!

Today I’m going to be all alone with the two kids because DH is at a meeting in KL. Have to wake up really early tomorrow, so stayed over at Palace of the Golden Horses. I stayed with him last year with Denisha when she was 7 months and the amount of things we had to bring over to the hotel was endless. So many things .. gosh. Bottles .. clothes .. slow cooker for cooking porridge .. and the list goes on and on. Hehhe. So this time with two kids. I think its not a great idea. Prolly next time .. when they are older. Anyways, its for business so, not much time for leisure. The Japanese buffet at the hotel is really really good. Had it before I was pregnant with Denisha .. their oysters are really fresh and good. Would love to find a time to have buffet without the kids. No good in hurrying food when the purpose is to enjoy.

24th October 2005:
Yesterday night we went over to Uncle Frank’s house for dinner and witness the come-back of granny. The Buddhist believe that when a person dies, the soul will come back. We were told by the “medium” that granny will come back on the 24th October 2005 between 9pm - 1am accompanied by “ox head horse head”. Food was laid out on the table beside the altar .. a set for granny and another for the “ox head bull head” figures. They placed a plate of flour on the table as well to justify granny’s come-back. After lighting some joysticks to pray, we hid ourselves in a room upstairs. It was said if anyone sees the “ox head and horse head” figures, they will hook your souls away. No one dares try to go out. We stayed in the room eating, chatting and playing cards. Approaching 1am, I heard soft bells ringing and I asked my cousin, did you hear any bells? She said no. Hmm … dunno .. maybe I was imagining things. Anyway, we all went downstairs to check on the table. There were fingerprints on a plate of flour on the table. That proves it. The soul does come back. We call it “wui yeong” (in cantonese).

Yesterday night, as I was getting ready for a shower, I decided to weigh myself. I was shocked to see the weight recorded on the scale and stepped off and on again. One more time I look at it. Gosh! When Darien was about 6 months old I was weighing at 56kg. It was still way above my pre-pregnancy weight. Before I had Denisha, I was weighing at 53kg. Now I’m at 50kg. Goodness me … I didn’t go on a diet nor watch what I eat. I just eat whatever I feel like. Gosh what is happening to me. Friends and relatives say the active kids made me lose all the weight. No wonder I can fit into all my clothings. Hmm … at least I don’t have to go for any slimming sessions. That’s a consolation. Hehhe. Anyone wants to lose weight can help me babysit and I guarantee you will regain your desired weight soon. *hint* *hint*

Gosh! I’ve been tagged again by Dinah. Here goes …. uhm

List 10 things that bring you moments of joy. Tag 5 friends to do the same.
1. The 1st respond the babies made in the womb
2. The 1st moment I saw the babies when they were born
3. Kids walking hand in hand with Mommy and Daddy
4. When the 2 kids happily playing together
5. The 1st time when they crawled
6. The 1st time my little princess called me ‘Mimi’
7. The 1st time the kids walked
8. When Daddy is having a great time with the kids
9. When princess kissed & hugged me goodnight
10. When the kids greeted me with a hug when I picked them up from the babysitter

Tags to go :
no tags for anyone .. lucky you!

I was tagged by Dinah. Here goes ….

7 thing I plan to do before I die:
1. Bring my kids to Disneyland
2. Holiday in Maldives
3. Stay abroad for a couple of years
4. See my kids grow up, be a grandmother and hopefully great grandmother
5. Start my own business (probably a petshop)
6. Buy each of the kids a house before we retire.
7. Open a trust fund for each kids.

7 things I could do:
1. Exercise
2. Buy new clothes. The time I stopped buying was the time when I found out I was pregnant with Denisha. By the time I wanted to get some new ones, I was pregnant with Darien. So I think this is the best time to shop
3. Do some gardening. We haven’t been doing anything about the garden eversince we shift into the new house
4. Get up earlier than the kids each morning
5. Clean up the computer table. It’s mess with papers everywhere
6. Sell all unwanted things. Haven’t have the time to sort it out yet.
7.

7 celebrity crushes:
1. Keanu Reeves
2. Brad Pitt
3. Gary Barlow
4. Jacky Cheung (good voice)
5. ??
6. ??
7. ??

7 often repeated words/phrases:
1. sh*t & oops
2. oh my God
3. darling (hubby)
4. princess (my little girl - Denisha)
5. boy (my little boy - Darien)
6. hi
7. thanks

7 physical traits I look for in the opposite sex:
1. height
2. looks
3. hair
4. facial expression (dislike moody)
5. ??
6. ??
7. ??

7 tags to go:
(no tags) - see I’m so kind ….

My beloved granny passed away last Friday (7th October 2005) morning at 2.30am. We were there a few hours before her passing. She was in a condition where she needs to be taken care of so she was in a nursing home for two years. We did not visit her for over a year when I was 6 months pregnant with my son, Darien. I had some complications and thought it was not a good idea to visit a nursing home then. After the birth of my son, our life was like havoc .. taking care of the kids and doing so many things .. by the time the day was over, we will be too pooped.

My granny developed Alzheimer about 5 years ago. Her disease got worse 2 years later. Before she develop AD, prior to that she has a stroke, from then she had to use a support to walk and eventually settle for a wheelchair. Everytime when I visit her at my aunt’s place, I’ll feel pain seeing her in the condition. Can’t walk and can’t recognise people.

Until recently, the doctors found that her kidneys were failing and was asked to bring her home. Two days before she was passed away, we went to see her in my uncle’s house. When she was in her deathbed, I was saddened .. she was so skinny .. looking more like a corpse. You know .. its like an old fruit … all dried up. I was heart-broken. My granny that used to be a fat and healthy lady is so lifeless. Not even a blink in her eyes. I was shattered. Tears rolled down my eyes. I could not control myself and kept on weeping. I called her and wondered if she recognise me. People used to say when a person is about to die, they will become the opposite and I believe she remembered all of us before she passed away because her eyes were teary.

My granny took care of me and my two younger brothers when we were babies up till schooling. We stayed with granny, aunty, uncle and cousin Barry (before they shifted to a new place). We had lots of fun there. Before bedtime she would tell us stories of her time and of my mom’s time while patting us to sleep. When she was more mobile, she would sometimes stay at my uncles’, aunty’s or our place. I remember when my mom went over to UK to visit my sisters, my granny would fly all the way from KL to KK to take care of us. And we would all sleep with her, hearing her old time stories.

Granny was also a very understanding lady. She always stressed that she doesn’t want to be anyone’s burden. She’s also a very thrifty lady and doesn’t like to see food go to waste. So sometimes, when there’re leftover for more than a day, we would secretly throw away without her knowledge. You know .. food so long can do harm to your body. Granny was also a very good cook. I simply love her sweet and sour pork and chicken potato stew. Everytime when I visit her she would cook my favourite.

I remember when I was younger, granny used to say to me .. “Poh poh is old, going to die soon”. I would cry and say “no no .. don’t die”. And now, it’s a reality. Maybe this is the best for her. She was really suffering and she had bed sores and it must have been really painful. I hope now she’s in a better place and her soul can rest in peace. Poh Poh .. I will love you and miss you always.